There was no scandal about the school beauty until I went to college

Chapter 1192 The Reason for Gentleness

Three days later, Qin Yuwen came to Su Baizhou's home again.

Drinking the last bit of Longjing tea, Qin Yuwen said listlessly: "Erdan and I haven't spoken for three days."

After hearing this, Su Baizhou was slightly surprised and asked, "Three days? What happened to you?"

She couldn't go three days without chatting like a couple.

Not to mention three days, even if she didn't talk to Luo Ye for three hours, she would feel like something was missing.

"Alas, I think I said something mean to him, and then he didn't reply to my message. Since he didn't reply to me, I felt embarrassed to send him a message."

"I understand." Su Baizhou nodded.

If you sent the last message yourself, it would be difficult for you to send another message because it would make you appear too proactive.

She was like this when she first met Luo Ye. If Luo Ye hadn't persisted at the time, they probably wouldn't have been together so soon.

Of course, it was Luo Ye who was pursuing her at the time, and there was nothing wrong with the person pursuing taking the initiative.

"Why can he not message me for three days? Is he really angry?" Qin Yuwen said dejectedly.

Although she was unhappy, she did not forget to eat the snacks in her hand and her mouth never stopped.

Some people have no appetite when they are unhappy, while some people think everything tastes delicious when they are unhappy.

"I don't know either." Su Baizhou shook his head.

Hearing this, Qin Yuwen was surprised and said, "Zhou Zhou, you have been talking to Luo Ye for so long, why do you know nothing when I ask you questions about couples?"

Hearing this, Su Baizhou thought about it, then hesitated and said: "It should be because... Luo Ye never fails to reply to my messages."

Qin Yuwen:......

She came here to seek comfort, not to be hurt again.

"By the way, where's Luo Ye? Why isn't he sticking to you?"

"It's not like he has to stick to me 24 hours a day. He sometimes goes out to play with his friends."

"Oh?"

Qin Yuwen asked suspiciously, "Going out to play? When will you be back? I'll go ask him, the love expert."

"Forget it. He is not omnipotent. Sometimes, you still have to think of a solution yourself."

After saying this, Qin Yuwen stared at Su Baizhou seriously.

After a moment, she said with some surprise: "Zhou Zhou, I feel like you seem to be becoming more and more gentle."

"Is there any?"

"Yes...how did you become more and more gentle?"

"Guess." Su Baizhou said calmly.

These two words seemed to turn on a switch in Qin Yuwen, making her stand up all of a sudden. Then she held her head with both hands and said in pain, "Tonic medicine, what I am worst at is guessing what others are thinking."

Seeing this, Su Baizhou smiled slightly and said, "In fact, a person's temper will change with the people around him."

"Why has it changed?" Qin Yuwen sat down and acted like a student listening attentively.

"For example, if you are disgusted by some of your boyfriend's habits, and he doesn't change after you tell him about it, or just gives you a perfunctory response, you will get angry... Later, you find that your boyfriend has other things that disgust you, and you will be very angry because you know...he won't change."

"So from now on, every time you see something about your boyfriend that you dislike, you will get angrier than the last time... Eventually, you will not be able to tolerate any shortcomings of the other person and become a bad-tempered person."

These words made Qin Yuwen look as if she understood but not quite.

This was a negative example mentioned by Su Baizhou, so she knew very well what Zhou Zhou wanted to express.

If there is something about a person that you dislike, such as smoking or often ignoring your emotions, and you get very angry when you encounter this situation, after you tell him about it, he will quickly change.

Then when he does something that you dislike again, you will not be as angry as last time. You may even be able to talk to him calmly or just mention it casually.

Because you know that the other person is someone who will correct himself, so why should you be angry?

If you think about it carefully, it’s not just relationships between lovers, it’s also the same for friendships and family relationships.

If parents are the kind of people who don't listen to their children's opinions, then their children will often be unwilling to communicate with them. Once they do, they will most likely end up arguing because of disagreements.

The result is that in the eyes of my parents, I have become a disobedient and bad-tempered person.

But whenever I leave home, everyone will say that I have a good temper, so why do I become so bad-tempered when I get home?

Because you know that parents are people who cannot communicate, and no matter how many times you tell them, they will not change, so you have no tolerance for them.

But what if parents would listen to their children’s opinions and take their children’s words into account?

So when your parents do something you don’t like again, will you really be angry?

When you know that communication can solve the problem, there is no point in getting angry.

Most quarrels are caused by a lack of communication.

You have your reasons, and I have mine. No one listens to anyone else, and no one can convince anyone else.

"So, Zhou Zhou, can Luo Ye really change many of the things that disgust you?" Qin Yuwen asked curiously.

"Not all of them. There are some habits he can't actually change... When we first started living together, he couldn't even sweep the floor clean... The second time, the third time, he didn't sweep it clean either. But every next time, he would sweep it cleaner than the last time."

After saying that, Su Baizhou's mouth corners slightly raised, and continued: "The important thing is not that he has changed, but that I can see that he is trying hard to change himself, which means... he loves me."

After hearing this, Qin Yuwen showed an envious expression.

Noticing her expression, Su Baizhou said, "Change is not a one-size-fits-all approach. If you want the other person to care about you, it's because you care about him enough. Only if you are willing to change for him will he be willing to change for you..."

And this is the reason why Su Baizhou becomes more and more gentle.